Single Session
₹2,999
About $36 USD
- A full hour on your situation, nothing else
- Name the pattern you are caught in
- Leave with one clear next step
- Private and confidential
You are not crazy.
You are not overreacting.
If you need someone to talk to about a narcissistic relationship — the lies, the push-pull, the slow drain — I listen. Then we name the pattern. I lived inside it myself.
Rahul Jyoti Nath · life coach & trained listener
- 7+ years listening & coaching
- English & Hindi
- India & worldwide
- 60 minutes private WhatsApp call
Does this sound familiar?
Six things people tell me in the first ten minutes
None of these alone proves anything. Together, they form a pattern — and patterns can be understood.
You doubt your own memory
Their version of events changes from one day to the next. You start keeping mental notes just to stay sane.
Everyone loves them but you
At parties they are magnetic — the victim in every story, the star of every room. Alone with you, something colder shows.
Push when you get close, pull when you leave
You reach for them and they withdraw. You try to go and they come back warm — gifts, promises, almost tenderness — then it is the same again.
Your world got smaller
Friends drifted. Family calls feel like a fight waiting to happen. They wanted you alone — that is when the mind games work best.
It began fast and intense
Commitment, labels, future plans — rushed early, before you saw the full pattern. Speed is often a trap.
You feel drained, not supported
Time with them costs you. You apologise when you are not wrong. You do not quite recognise yourself anymore.
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If you are looking for help
Someone to talk to about how you feel
Search engines will not sit with you at 2am. A person can. I am a life coach and trained listener — not a therapist — for people who need help with their feelings after emotional abuse, gaslighting, or a narcissistic parent, partner or boss.
You need to say it out loud
Friends are tired of hearing it. Family takes their side. You keep it in. A private WhatsApp call is a place to talk without performing or defending yourself.
You need the pattern named
Confusion is part of the harm. Together we look at what is actually happening — so you can trust your own mind again, without being told what to do.
You need a next step
One hour, one concrete step. India and worldwide, English or Hindi. Message me, take a quiz, use the tools, or start with a free guide.
Who is Rahul? Read my story
I listen differently. There is a reason.
In 2011, at twenty, I was in a car accident that took my father's life. For a few minutes, it took mine too. I came back — and I came back changed. Since then I have had an unusual ability to hear what people are carrying before they say it.
Years later I found myself inside a narcissistic relationship. I know that particular confusion from the inside: the gaslighting, the self-doubt, the exhaustion of wondering whether you are the problem.
Seven-plus years of listening — on 7 Cups and in one-on-one coaching — plus a Master's in Machine Learning from the University of Bonn gave me something I do not see often: empathy and logic working together. I hold the feeling. Then I help you see the pattern.
2011The year everything changed
7+Years of listening & coaching
MSMachine Learning, Uni Bonn
How it works
Simple on purpose
No booking portals, no intake forms, no payment gateways. Just a conversation, arranged the way you would with a friend.
- 01
Message me
Leave your email or phone and a few words. Tell me as little or as much as you like. I reply personally, usually within 24 hours.
- 02
We talk
A private 60-minute call on WhatsApp — voice or video, your choice. No script, no rush. I listen first.
- 03
You leave with clarity
A clear picture of the pattern, and one concrete next step. What you do with it is yours to decide.
Payment is by UPI or bank transfer, shared on WhatsApp once we agree a time. International clients: we will sort it out together.
What I work with
Narcissistic relationships first. And everything they leave behind.
- Narcissistic partner or spouse Push-pull warmth, shifting stories, charm in public and cruelty in private.
- Narcissistic parents or family Guilt, obligation, and a childhood that is hard to name.
- Toxic workplace or boss Credit taken, blame given, and dread every Monday.
- Breakup or divorce recovery The relationship ended. The noise in your head did not.
- Self-love and self-worth Learning to be on your own side.
- Life direction and purpose You did everything right and still feel lost.
- Grief and loss Someone is gone. The world keeps moving.
- Loneliness Surrounded by people, and still alone.
Sessions & pricing
Choose your pace
Every session is one-on-one, sixty minutes, on WhatsApp. Prices in Indian rupees (USD shown for overseas clients). If money is tight, say so when you message — we can talk.
Clarity Package
₹7,999
About $95 USD
₹2,666 per session · save ₹998 (11%)
- Understand the whole dynamic, not just the latest incident
- Break the self-doubt loop
- Build a plan — to heal in place, or to leave
- Three sessions spaced to fit your pace
Breakthrough Package
₹13,999
About $167 USD
₹2,333 per session · save ₹3,995 (22%)
- The full journey: recognise, recover, rebuild
- Work through grief, anger and guilt safely
- Rebuild trust in your own judgement
- Tools to protect yourself going forward
Not sure which? Message me — one line about what is going on is enough. I will tell you honestly what I think fits.
What people notice
In my own words, for now
I will only publish client words here with their clear consent. Until then, this is what people most often tell me after we talk.
People tell me they said things in our first call they had never said out loud — and felt lighter for it, not exposed.
What I say often lands fully a few days later. Clients message me: "I finally understood what you meant on Tuesday."
I do not push you to leave or to stay. I help you see clearly. Most people already know what they need — they need someone to help them trust it.
Free guides
Start reading tonight
Three short, plain-spoken guides. No jargon. Written for someone who is tired and needs to feel less alone.
5-page PDF
12 Signs You're in a Narcissistic Relationship
A plain-language checklist for the moments you wonder if it's you.
5-page PDFThe First 7 Steps After Realising It's Abuse
What to do in the weeks after the penny drops — before any big decision.
5-page PDFBoundaries with a Narcissistic Parent
How to protect your peace without burning down the family — written for Indian families, useful anywhere.
From the blog
Plain words about hard things
Practical skills for dealing with narcissistic people
Grey rock, JADE, boundaries, documentation, and one outside witness — six skills that help whether the narcissist is a partner, parent, or boss.
Childhood and the shut-down heart: where the pattern often starts
Many narcissistic partners decided early that feelings were weakness and the world was against them. That is not your job to fix — and it explains the mind games.
When everyone loves them — and only you see the other side
They play the victim in every story, charm every room, and copy emotions like a script. Here is why the public version is so hard to reconcile with private life.
Start with one message.
Need someone to talk to? No booking system, no pressure. Tell me a little about what is going on, and we will take it from there.
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