Narcissistic partner or spouse
Push-pull warmth, shifting stories, charm in public and cruelty in private.
Who this is for
You love someone who makes you feel small, confused, and somehow always at fault. Everyone else thinks they are wonderful. When you try to leave, the gifts and warmth return — and friends say "just leave" as if it were simple.
What we work on
Naming the pattern — gaslighting, isolation, love-bombing, the victim act — separating what is yours from what is theirs, and deciding your next step without pressure in either direction.